Went to a mall, saw an old friend of mine, She looked damn pretty and suddenly I felt quite inferior. She was the perfect beauty with milky white skin, matching sandals and handbag and a branded dress. Old jeans with a faded T-shirt, Slippers and shabby hairs with an average height is how someone can describe me. Suddenly I felt I should hide myself from her and to make sure that she did not see me. When I went back home, I pledged to keep myself clean and better dressed. The same day I bought myself a new pair of clothes, a Watch, a hair gel and a pair of shoes. I dressed up and was so confident that I realized that I was calling my friends to go out and have fun which was otherwise vice versa.
- Most of the people feel conscious about their looks when they go out with opposite sex and feel comfortable when they go out with very close friends or from the same gender.
- 70% People spent their hard earned money to impress people they don't even know or do not care about even when they are short of finances.
- Comparing to others is another way to showoff and make the other person feel inferior.
On the other hand if you don't express yourself properly chances of failure increases. There are various forms of expressions. It might be your looks,your personality ,your communication skills,your attitude or your attire.
How can I balance myself between Showoff and Good personality?
Looking good is important as it is the weapon which helps you to get your first impression right but Looking good is not the only weapon which sets your image. Dress properly according to the occasion but never ever do anything which is over the limits. Remember Simplicity is always the best beauty. Avoid spending extravagantly for a look which hides your natural beauty.
2. Always keep yourself clean
When was the last time you had bath, you shaved or ironed your Shirt? Keeping things what you have neat and clean is the best way to avoid spending too much and you yourself will feel confident and fresh.
3. Accept what you are.
Most of the people try to pretend according to the person they are meeting with. Always be yourself and accept what you are.
4. Always be Confident
Confidence is the best jewelry a person should wear whenever you are meeting/facing anyone. Even if you lack the required skills, confidence might bring the trophy home.
5. Always approach first
Be amicable and approachable but always try to approach first. It will reflect your down to earth attitude and your friendly nature irrespective of thinking about how the other person will react. He might be thinking the same as you are.
Note:- All the views of the Author is his personal opinions and his experience. Views and opinion may vary from person to person.
Note:- All the views of the Author is his personal opinions and his experience. Views and opinion may vary from person to person.
